Lower than six years in the past, the British-born Muslim Tania Joya was dwelling in Syria together with her husband, an American-born convert to Islam who was turning into an more and more influential determine within the circles of Islamic State. Subsequent week, she might be giving a speak about “countering the forces of violent extremism” at Temple Shalom, a Reform synagogue in Dallas, Texas.
So far as Joya is aware of, her ex, the former Greek Orthodox Christian John Georgelas who for 17 years has gone beneath the identify of Yahya al-Bahrumi, continues to be lively in Syria with Islamic State, the place he’s stated to head the jihadi terror group’s English-language propaganda operation and to be its most senior American recruit. For her half, Joya has renounced Islam, is turning into more and more attracted to Jewish customs and rituals, took her sons to assist beautify the sukka at Temple Shalom a number of months in the past, and says she intends to come to Jerusalem.
The speedy transformation of Joya’s life — from a self-styled former “hard-core” jihadi and dutiful partner of an Islamic extremist, to a declared de-radicalization activist — is so stark and unbelievable as to depart doubts, she acknowledges, in many individuals’s minds. In a British tv look a yr in the past, her hosts reduce brief her interview after she stated, when requested if she nonetheless beloved her ex-husband, “I don’t love him like I’m in love with him; I love him because he gave me four beautiful, lovely children… If he’s caught, he needs to go to prison, of course… I love him like I love people… Everybody has a good side; everybody has a bad side.” Stated her interviewer, Piers Morgan, caustically: “ISIS terrorists don’t have a good side, and so I’m afraid we’re going to end the interview right there.”
Joya says that much-watched brief excerpt of the interview is unfair; elsewhere within the dialog she had tried to clarify how and why she had been drawn to Islamic extremism, and in addition referred to as the Quran “a terrible book” that advocates jihad and warfare.
When she sums up the twists and turns of her pretty younger life — Joya is 34 — in a current phone interview, her first with an Israeli journalist, it makes for an all-too believable narrative. And whereas her escape from Syria, pregnant and with three youngsters in tow, and her unbelievable revival in Texas, are extremely dramatic, what’s most putting and alarming concerning the saga is the consummate ease with which Joya was indoctrinated into Islamic radicalism within the first place and the zeal with which she took up the monstrous trigger.
I didn’t need to be that sucker who acquired indoctrinated. However the details are plain
The way it all started
The approach she tells it, Joya was an impressionable British Muslim teenager, from what she insists was not a radical Muslim residence, who had a troublesome relationship together with her mother and father, who was bodily unwell, who thought God was punishing her, and who grabbed maintain of Islamic extremist certainties as what she now regards as some sort of a hideous help system. “I didn’t want to be that sucker who got indoctrinated. But the facts are undeniable,” she says over the telephone from Texas. And, extra constructively, “If I can be reformed through knowledge and facts, there are others who can.”
Joya grew up close to London as Joya Choudhury, the daughter of Bangladeshi-born mother and father, who she describes as “culturally Muslim.” Requested whether or not they have been excessive, she laughs and says, “Oh, no, no, no, no, no. I wouldn’t use that word.” And but later in our dialog, when she muses about how her life may need turned out had she not been a Muslim, she says, “I probably would have been happier in the UK. I would have been allowed to integrate, whereas my parents didn’t allow it, because it was culturally shameful to integrate with the English customs. Even to wear Western clothing, makeup. You get shamed, if you try to be Westernized, by the Muslim community that I grew up in — my parents, my friends, the teachers that I had to learn the Quran from every day for two hours after school, which was a complete waste of time. Because really that time should have been used for my education — helping me to read and be good at school. I had to read the Quran every day of my life when I lived with my parents, but they’re still considered moderate. These terms don’t work. They’re not the whole truth.”
The household was poor, her father was verbally abusive, and her mom, once they argued, would scream at her that “I wish I’d never had you,” she informed the Texas Month-to-month in a prolonged November 2017 function. She cites her residence life instantly once I ask her what drew her to extremism: “I assume it has quite a bit to do with my upbringing, of not trusting my mother and father. Whenever you don’t have good position fashions or authority figures that you could belief, it’s not good for a kid.
“I was an insecure girl. I had serious problems at home,” Joya elaborates. “I was drawn to the idea of finding another home, another family. I needed that because that made me feel like I had a community — people who can support me. I needed support. Also, I was getting over depression and illness. That made me think a lot about death and dying, and that God hated me. I wanted redemption for things that I thought were sins, that weren’t really sins. I was a young, naive, gullible, superstitious girl, who feared science because it contradicted my beliefs and religion.”
And so it got here to move that, by her late teenagers, “she was draping herself in a full-body covering, or jilbab,” Graeme Wooden wrote of her in a March, 2017, Atlantic article that pinpointed her husband as The American Climbing the Ranks of ISIS. “She fantasized about packing a bomb under it.”
‘I was 19, he was still 18’
She got here throughout John Georgelas/Yahya al-Bahrumi on a Muslim matrimonial web site in 2003. On the time, in accordance to the Texas Month-to-month, he was learning Arabic in Damascus. He had transformed to Islam within the fast aftermath of 9/11 and begun the descent into radicalism. He courted her by way of e-mail, and got here to England to visit her. “He was wearing shaggy, tattered clothes. He had a short beard. I thought he looked like a prophet from medieval times,” she advised her Texas Month-to-month interviewer, Abigail Pesta. “I didn’t find him attractive, but I felt pressure to like him. I thought, he’s come all the way from Syria; I felt an obligation.”
She favored his concept of dwelling within the Center East. She was rising attracted to the thought of jihad, which she had begun to regard as “a solution.” And her mother and father, impressed by his comparatively upscale American background, permitted of him. They obtained married virtually instantly, in a secret ceremony in March 2003 — “I was 19, he was still 18,” she says — and in a proper ceremony two months later, with Joya coated up within the Islamic gown and veil that may now turn into her regular mode of gown.
They then went to visit his mother and father in Plano, Texas, and lived variously in London, pre-civil conflict Syria, California, and Dallas, the place her husband offered tech help for a jihadi propaganda website whereas his fundamental employment was at Rackspace, a number one pc server agency. In 2006, he was arrested and sentenced to virtually three years in jail for accessing the passwords and plotting to hack the web site of the pro-Israel foyer AIPAC.
He was all the time pro-caliphate. Very, what’s the phrase, atavistic. We each have been. We have been historical past nerds: We thought, if society just isn’t understanding, you’ve acquired to look again in historical past and repeat it
The means the Atlantic described the primary years of their marriage, “Yahya maintained a Rasputinlike control over her. He hadn’t had much success finding social esteem in his prior life, but in Tania he found his first student. He mesmerized her with his confidence, and she repressed her own misgivings whenever she found herself questioning him. Tania has mild dyslexia; Yahya’s reading of Islamic texts convinced her, with his fluency and recall and breadth, that he could produce an unanswerable argument about any point on which she disagreed. She determined that Yahya was a genius with gifts God had denied her, and she accepted her place in the world of jihad: Service to Yahya was her ticket to heaven. She endorsed slavery, apocalypse, polygamy, and killing. She aspired to raise seven boys as holy warriors — one to conquer each continent.”
Their marriage started to disintegrate whereas he was in jail, nevertheless, as she and their first son lived first in London after which in Plano. They argued extra when he was launched — he had grow to be nonetheless extra excessive; she had moved in the other way — however they stayed collectively. Within the accelerating trainwreck of their married life, that they had a second son whereas he took a second spouse (a pal of Joya’s in London, whom he married over the telephone, couldn’t see as a result of he was barred from leaving the US whereas on parole, and later divorced).
As soon as he was free to depart america, al-Bahrumi moved the household to Egypt simply because the Arab Spring was erupting and have become an more and more outstanding determine in ISIS circles, giving seminars on-line in English and Arabic concerning the jihadi group’s plan for a caliphate, attracting recruits from Europe. “On social media, Tania supported his views,” wrote Wooden within the Atlantic, “but with each child she bore, her eagerness to join the jihad by then under way in Syria waned.”
After which, in 2013, he took her and their three younger youngsters to Syria.
A bit of a nasty story
“He was always pro-caliphate. Very, what’s the word, atavistic. We both were,” Joya recollects in our interview. “We have been historical past nerds: We thought, if society isn’t understanding, you’ve obtained to look again in historical past and repeat it.
“He was always extreme, but it evolved. His way of thinking changed. He became slightly worse after we left each other,” she provides. “The longer John was in Syria, the more Salafi-oriented he became, because that’s what was in power. He didn’t really stick to his principles.”
She says she “never wanted to go to Syria,” and that he tricked her — a mom, pregnant, with sons aged eight, 5 and 18 months — into getting into into the guts of chaotic, spectacularly harmful battle. “He put me on a bus. I figured out what we were doing. Then he promised me it would only be for a week or two. I’m like, okay, that’s fine, I’m able to handle a week or two.” The common concept, she says, was that she’d truly go to Turkey with the youngsters, and “he can just come and go from the border, and not to fight, just to help. He was a nerd. He liked guns, but he liked computer games. I never saw him as a soldier. He always said his weapon was his keyboard. I never pictured him becoming a militant, violent, soldier-type person. I always thought he’d just be, like, the brains behind things and not really active.”
Besides that, after three weeks in Azaz, in northwestern Syria, he introduced that he wasn’t leaving. She pleaded with him, in useless, she says, and informed him she couldn’t stand it any longer. He drove them to the border early one morning, and she or he and the youngsters fled to relative security by way of a gap within the fence.
“It wasn’t the first time he’d taken me to a place that I didn’t want to be. He’d done that a few times while we were married,” she says now. “I didn’t want to go to Egypt when we were in Egypt. I didn’t want to go and live in the north coast near Libya. He made me go there. He would always ruin every stable home condition. Wherever I was happy, he was not happy. Every time I felt comfortable and stable and had friends, I was always happy, but he wasn’t because it wasn’t religious enough for him. It wasn’t rigid enough.”
Keep in mind, she urges, “he virtually owned me. I used to be chattel. I wasn’t a free particular person. I used to be by no means raised to be a freethinking lady. I used to be all the time informed I’m a Muslim. Males have authority over ladies. You possibly can’t journey and not using a mahram, a companion, or relative. All these circumstances are placed on ladies. Once I was younger I didn’t query it.
“He tricked me once more, and this time it was the final straw. I couldn’t deal with it anymore. With Syria, once I stated let’s return, he wouldn’t return. He used this verse from the Quran: For those who flip your again on jihad then you’re a hypocrite. I stated I’d relatively be a hypocrite, thanks very a lot, and I don’t care. I stated I’m going to go with out you then, and he agreed, as a result of honestly for a very long time I used to be on this marriage and he wouldn’t give me a divorce. And I had nobody to go to as a result of I used to be in hassle. He was fed up with me as a lot as I used to be fed up with him. I used to be all the time stopping him from fulfilling his boyhood goals of conflict and being like a cowboy or no matter. He was tired of married life. He obtained bored of paying payments to survive, taking care [of a family]. He couldn’t deal with the duty, although he pressured it on me and I didn’t need it. He was towards contraception. I had no rights.
“So it was, like, a bit of a nasty story, to be honest,” she says with fairly sensational understatement. “A bit of a troublesome story.”
A brand new life in Texas
And now Tania Joya lives in Texas, is divorced from John/Yahya (in February 2015), and remarried to Craig Burma (in June 2018). They, too, met on-line, the place Joya, the Texas Month-to-month reported, wrote in her on-line profile that her “husband had gone off to be the next Osama bin Laden,” and received 1,300 replies.
She got here to Texas as a result of, fairly merely, she has 4 youngsters by her ex-husband and wanted the assistance that solely his mother and father might present. “When I left him, I had nothing,” she says. ” John all the time made me depending on him. I didn’t even have my very own checking account. I wanted assist with my youngsters. I used to be pregnant. My in-laws, John’s mother and father, took me in. They helped me get on my ft.”
Right now, they share custody. “John’s out of the picture. It’s the parents who are the legal guardians,” she specifies. Her youngsters are together with her on weekends and holidays, and with their grandparents the remaining of the time.
How do they really feel about their son’s life decisions? They advised the Atlantic they regarded his conversion to Islam as a case of psychological weak spot. “Every university town in this country has a mosque for one reason,” stated his father, Timothy. “Kids are away from home for the first time, vulnerable and subject to influence. They hear the message and they’re hooked, and that’s what happened to John.”
Says Joya: “It was always heartbreaking for them to see their son change. His mom was really close to John and she lost her baby son, her only son. That was really devastating. They saw him just rolling down a dark hill. They did everything they could to help.”
If he’s the very best rating American, it’s as a result of there aren’t different People in ISIS which have the talent set that he has, and that wouldn’t shock me. That’s all I do know
Nonetheless, she provides, “I would have liked it if they had believed me when I complained to them about him. It wasn’t until I came back from Syria that they realized that I wasn’t making up how he treated me. They didn’t want to believe that their son was a monster. They were in denial.”
She remained in contact with al-Bahrumi for a number of years after she’d fled Syria, she says, by way of Telegram and Skype; he broke off contact after the Atlantic article appeared virtually two years in the past. “Everything, all the information I got, I passed it on to the authorities,” she says. “That’s what I did voluntarily, because I was very appreciative of the US government for giving me a second chance.”
So far as she is aware of, he’s nonetheless in Syria, nonetheless concerned with Islamic State. “He’s not the second in command of ISIS or whatever,” she says firmly, rejecting a thesis posited within the Atlantic article in 2017 that he may need succeeded Abu Muhammed al-Adnani, killed by a US drone in 2016, as Islamic State’s second strongest determine, although she acknowledges that he knew Adnani. “If he is the highest ranking American, it’s because there aren’t other Americans in ISIS that have the skill set that he has, and that wouldn’t surprise me. That’s all I know.”
Writer Wooden described al-Bahrumi not as some weird, marginal recruit, however as a extremely influential determine in Islamic State. Based mostly on an interview with a fellow convert, Musa Cerantonio, who referred to as him a instructor and chief, the Atlantic article stated al-Bahrumi “had done much to prepare Muslims for the religious obligations that would kick in once a caliphate had been established.”
Wrote Wooden: “Jihadists in Syria knew him by reputation, and they honored him when they met him. Cerantonio said that in early 2014, Yahya had pressed the leaders of what was then the Islamic State of Iraq and al-Sham (ISIS) to declare a caliphate. He began preaching that the conditions for the declaration of a valid caliphate had been met… He called for emigration to lands where Sharia would be fully enforced, and wrote that choosing not to emigrate was a form of apostasy… He called for Muslims to hate, fight, and kill infidels — among whom, he said, were many so-called Muslims who nullified their faith by neglecting prayer, deviating from the narrow literalism of his interpretation of scripture, or, in the case of rulers, not instituting the brutal system of justice for which the Islamic State was then becoming famous.”
The Atlantic piece additionally termed al-Bahrumi “Islamic State’s leading producer of high-end English-language propaganda as a prolific writer for its flagship magazines, Dabiq and Rumiyah. “The first article in Dabiq that I have been able to confirm was written by Yahya was published in April 2016, and took as its subject Western Muslims who, despite calling themselves Muslims, are infidels,” wrote Wooden. “The headline, ‘Kill the Imams of Kufr [Disbelief] in the West,’ was only marginally less grotesque than the accompanying design: crosshairs over images of prominent mainstream Western Muslims; an image of a crouching, blindfolded ‘apostate’ at the moment an executioner’s blade enters his neck. In the article, Yahya recounted many stories of Muhammad and his companions’ harsh treatment of Muslims who had lapsed. Hands and feet are severed, eyes gouged out with nails, bodies stomped to death.”
Has her ex-husband killed individuals for ISIS? “I’ve no idea, but it wouldn’t surprise me,” Joya says. “He was in a battle with Hezbollah once, many years ago. And then he got injured by a mortar. It could have happened. I just don’t know. He’s never told me.” In accordance to the Atlantic, he was hit by shrapnel, “nearly severing his spine,” in a mortar blast when preventing with an Islamic State–aligned group close to Aleppo in 2014. “His injuries left him temporarily unable to walk… but he was content and proud… During that period he took up with a new wife, a Syrian, and had a daughter with her about a year after Tania’s departure, and another some time later.”
Summarized Wooden within the Atlantic piece, “He in some ways resembled his fellow Americans in Syria: He went to fight, and he would have welcomed a battlefield death if God had willed it. But he was no mere foot soldier; his religious scholarship, connections, and standing distinguished him…”
I ask Joya what she would say or do if he contacted her at present? “We’re divorced. He wouldn’t contact me,” she solutions shortly. “I think he’d just contact his mom.”
How, virtually talking, does one divorce a husband on the opposite aspect of the world preventing for a terrorist group? “I said it was abandonment,” she explains. “We hadn’t been together for more than six months. They put something in the newspaper to announce to John: Do you argue with this claim that Joya wants to get a divorce? So they don’t hear back from him, the court doesn’t hear back from him, and they allow you to divorce.”
The new Joya is concerned in a US anti-extremism initiative referred to as Mother and father for Peace, provides talks on de-radicalization, and is planning a guide — a memoir, she says, with a message “for people who want to understand the mindset or the emotions, and the push and pull factors, of what draws people into extremism and what life is like. It’s dark. I just want to shed light on it, because it needs to be spoken about rather than being a taboo subject that will continue happening. I want to explain how I de-radicalized — through education and reading American literature.”
She isn’t an American citizen, however hopes to grow to be one. “The values of America opened my mind,” she says, “and helped me just get out of that sphere. The thing that was controlling me: It liberated me from that. I was able to think for myself finally. I find that there are some women who talk to me — they are immigrants to America, usually from India, and they’ll agree with me. They’ll say that when we came to America we no longer had our communities putting pressure on us to have a collective way of thinking, no matter how wrong it is. We were allowed to think for ourselves. It is very liberating and it also makes us more compassionate people.”
It’s nicer to me to consider that there isn’t any god, as a result of if there’s a god it’s tousled. I’m a humanist if something. I feel god is irrelevant. Mankind simply has to make it by itself
How does she describe her faith as we speak? “I’m an agnostic atheist,” Joya says. “I’m not saying it’s impossible that there is a god. If there is a god, it’s like some crazy alien that’s bipolar and doesn’t really care about us. It’s nicer to me to believe that there is no god, because if there is a god it’s messed up. I’m a humanist if anything. I think god is irrelevant. Mankind just has to make it on its own.”
And the way does she see her life panning out now? “I need meaning in my life. My children give meaning. Fifty percent of the reason why I changed and de-radicalized was because of my children,” she says. “I really like them greater than my faith, which I’m not allowed to do in Islam. I would like to see them develop up and benefiting humanity, not destroying it. I would like to watch them thrive and do nicely. That conflicted with my faith. However I used to be already waning in my perception.
There are such a lot of individuals who suspect that I nonetheless help ISIS. However I get messages from women who say, we understood your story as a result of we’re there — we’re caught
“Now they’re Christian. Now they can be whatever they want. As long as they’re not breaking the law, I think I’m always going to be a proud mother.”
Her activism work, she says, “provides me function. There are such a lot of Muslim women, Muslim ladies, and minorities, gays, who’re on the receiving finish of abuse from spiritual fanatics, extremists. I’m there for them. My story goes out to them.
“There are so many people who suspect that I still support ISIS,” she says candidly. “But I get messages from girls who say, we understood your story because we’re there — we’re stuck. Seeing me gives them hope that they can come out of their abusive marriage, of their communities. I tell them, I’m here for you. I keep in contact. That’s what I do. I’m here for other people who are being oppressed by Islam.”
Everybody who knew John prior to now, earlier than he turned a Muslim, liked him and stated he was a very good man
Amongst these apparently unpersuaded by the extent of her transformation have been the British TV interviewers who abruptly ended their dialog together with her in January final yr after she stated her ex-husband had a superb aspect.
Joya is undeterred: “Everyone who knew John in the past, before he became a Muslim, loved him and said he was a really good guy. He was liked by people. The more he got depressed and the more he put all his eggs into one basket and that was about God and Islam, the worse he became, the more he became someone else. As a child growing up before he turned 17 he was adorable. And I know lots of people who knew him — his entire family and the community he grew up in.”
The Atlantic piece on her husband, which appeared within the March 2017 print version and on-line a couple of weeks earlier, famous that Joya “has left jihadism, but she cannot completely leave Yahya. On social media,” the article famous, with out specifying the date, “she wrote to a relative of her husband’s: … ‘We made some really poor choices that backfired on us… I’m somewhat jealous of the love and devotion he has for Islam over me.’”
In a subsequent piece and documentary movie devoted to her story, nevertheless, the Atlantic’s Wooden concluded that Joya “has transformed as remarkably as her husband, but in reverse. John traded his American patrimony — money, family — for jihad. Tania traded jihad for America.”
Careworn Wooden: “She never, in my conversations with her, advocated violence or seriously regretted leaving John at the Syrian border. And yet there are signs — not of violence, but of a permanent effect of her jihadist brainwashing… She never said she wished to return to Syria, but she did lament that so many of the Islamic State’s followers are being bombed ‘just because they just want to live under a caliphate.’ Lines like these come out after hours of perfectly normal conversation.”
The promo for the movie — which is entitled The ‘First Lady of ISIS’ — notes, “Together, they traveled the globe, befriending jihadis and grooming their children to become ‘assassins.’ But after ten years of living on the run, Tania began to fear for her family’s safety.”
“I told the little ones, ‘Your dad joined the dark side of the force,’” Tania says within the film. “I told them, ‘Mommy was part of the dark side of the force, but now I’m a dark Jedi.’”
Coming away from his interviews with Joya in Texas in late 2017, Wooden noticed that “From the way she dresses, you’d think she spent the last decade reading Italian Vogue, not the Koran.”
In our phone dialog, Joya ranges some biting, scatter-gun criticism at Britain, British journalists, British attitudes to Islam, and British attitudes to her: “When I talk to people in the UK, I can’t tell from the journalists whether it’s a secular country or a country that lives under a Muslim dictatorship,” she declares. “Because they hate what I say so much. Even though what I’m saying is objective: I never wanted Islam to be a false religion. I didn’t want to be that sucker who got indoctrinated. But the facts are undeniable. If I can be reformed through knowledge and facts, there are others who can. And it’s happened.”
There are tons of different individuals like her?” There’s an enormous ex-Muslim group. I didn’t understand this till after I did the interview with Piers Morgan. They appreciated what I stated. Look how she’s been silenced, despite the fact that she’s talking one thing that’s true: Islam isn’t according to human rights. It’s as a result of it’s such an historic method of life. We all know a lot extra now. As human beings, we’ve advanced. We’ve grown. Fortunately we have now solutions that they didn’t have again then. So that they had to have superstitious solutions to clarify the world round them. What I’m saying is logical, and but it inflames the British public.
“I can imagine it [inflaming] Egypt because being an atheist in Egypt is illegal. If in the UK, Muslims and non-Muslims can’t accept a difference of opinion, or freedom of speech, then they’re not holding the humanist, secular values they claim to be holding. They’re not really moderates.”
‘I really like Reform Jews’
Our interview marks the primary time, Joya says, that she’s spoken to an Israeli journalist, however definitely not her first interplay with Jews.
For one factor, her second-eldest sister married a British/Italian man of Jewish descent. “He had to take the Shahada” — that’s, to declare perception within the oneness of God and in Muhammad as his remaining prophet, or, as she places it, “to convert to Islam superficially” — “before marrying my sister.” In any other case, she says, “my family would have made them outcasts.”
After which there’s her burgeoning connection to Dallas’s Temple Shalom. “I really like Reform Jews. I love them a lot,” she says. This all began when she did a talking occasion on the Texas Month-to-month, and a woman named Jerri Grunewald from that congregation attended. They acquired speaking and “she asked me if I’d like to get involved with interfaith work, which I told her I loved doing. We just built up a friendship from there.”
Subsequent week, this relationship will see Joya invited as the featured speaker of the 16th annual “Intra-Faith Sisterhood Brunch” on the Temple, marketed as being devoted this yr to the theme of “Escape and Triumph.”
“Tania will speak about her transition from a marriage to a ranking ISIS member, to one countering the forces of violent extremism, and I believe the audience will be fascinated by her,” Grunewald advised the Texas Jewish Publish. “Tania’s evolution as a woman, as a human being and her strength in becoming an independent thinker and role model is a story to be heard.”
Has she been to occasions on the Temple? ‘Yes, Succos,’ she says fortunately, ‘when they have a tent outside. I took my children there to decorate it’
“My goal is to protect other young people from the indoctrination and grooming process that I was vulnerable to,” Joya informed her native Jewish weekly. “Prevention programs are the key to protecting all American youth from radicalization… Jihadists need to be heard because if we don’t know their arguments, and how poor their arguments are, we’re not going to be able to discuss and refute them.”
Has she been to occasions on the Temple? “Yes, Succos,” she says fortunately, “when they have a tent outside. I took my children there to decorate it. I missed Hanukkah because all of my sons were busy. They’re going to invite me to future events. I enjoy it. It’s nice. There’s no pressure.”
She’s made pals locally, she says: “I just mingle and socialize with them. They’re incredibly open-minded people, that I really admire.”
“I like so much how, in Judaism, you can still be Jewish but not a believer,” she enthuses. “It’s more about the customs that you’re just practicing — your ancestors’ customs, which are really nice customs and traditions to do — as long as no one’s getting hurt, in sacrifices.” (She laughs.) “I take comfort in that community a lot.”
Perhaps if all of the Palestinians convert to Judaism, perhaps there’ll be peace. That’s my answer to the Palestinian-Israeli drawback. Very far-fetched
And what does she assume, know, have to say about Israel? As typically in our telephone dialog, she solutions immediately, in a gush of phrases, some of them fairly sudden: “It’s humorous. John and I each felt, earlier than he left, of course: The greatest man wins in a struggle. They have been stronger. If the Palestinians and the Arab nations had simply been extra Islamic, and extra organized, and had establishments that functioned, perhaps they might have gained. That’s how I assumed once I was a Muslim.
“As a non-Muslim, I really didn’t care. I mean I care about people suffering. I care about human beings everywhere. But it wasn’t like, Oh my brothers and sisters are dying — the Palestinians. I mean, I did care like that when I was a Muslim, but as a non-Muslim, I don’t know — I feel like it’s war, it’s happened. Maybe if all the Palestinians convert to Judaism, maybe there’ll be peace. That’s my solution to the Palestinian-Israeli problem. Very far-fetched. I’m a dreamer.” (Once more, she laughs.)
Sure, that’s fairly far-fetched, I reply.
“But it is a way to peace,” she lobs again.
Together with her newfound enthusiasm for Judaism and Reform Jews, she’s not planning to convert, is she? “I don’t believe I can convert,” she says. “I feel like it’s genetic — with the Ashkenazis and the Sephardic. I’d just be pretending.” (She laughs.)
“I’ll go along for the fun holidays and stuff, and be friends. But I don’t believe in conversions to Judaism. I know some people do, but I’d feel like I’m faking it. I know that’s going to sound strange. A lot of the things I say sound strange. But I’ve had a different experience in life to most people, I guess.”
Earlier than hanging up, I point out that my spouse was born in Texas, and Joya says politely that we should always contact her if we visit. I frivolously recommend that she ought to do the identical if she ever comes to Jerusalem.
“I will,” she guarantees. “It’s going to happen. I need to see the Holy Land of conflict,” she says, laughing.
Actually? “Yes. I’m so curious. I love history. I need to know. I need to see it.”
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